Iyanla and Eboni|My Thoughts.
Posts
That one time...I “heard” but didn't “listen” over and over and over again.
That one time...revelations of a lifetime. by Leo Brown. Gay men who are known as trade. I had just gotten back from one of my favorite places in the world. Las Vegas. I don't know what it is about sin city but it resonates with me and I it. I absolutely love it! Everything down to the weather and homeless guys on the street. Even they sparkle to me despite begin covered in dirt. I had gone there to celebrate my turning 34 a week early. I wanted to bring in my 34th year with a bang and I got exactly what I asked for. Before making this trip. I had been talking with a guy named Delroy. (Not his real name.) I met him on a telephone chat site and when we met. It was at least for me a very magickal experience. I thought “Finally, I've found someone who understood me.” We had been talking for over 14 months and it was nice to be desired and thought of. As he and I would talk everyday for sometimes hours about everything from marriage, living together and even the poss...
That one time... I tried to turn nothing into something over and over and over.
It happen again. I misread the signs; no, I saw what I wanted to see and heard what I wanted to hear. Contrary to popular opinion, just because you have the sight doesn't mean that you're dating life or the person you're dating shines bright like a diamond. Hell, in most cases you can't see shit. I am no exception to this rule. We've all done it. Met someone, felt a “deep connection” say you're going to take things slow but in your head you're already picking out china and making the seating arrangements for the wedding of all weddings that is going to take place in two years max. In my dating/love life. I always attracted men who looked the part (or I convinced myself they were fine but that's for another post.) said the right things but once I got past all that. Turns out they weren't shit, didn't have shit and didn't want shit. In other words emotionally or physically unavailable. Sure, they wanted to fuck but that was it; and...
Are you dating a king or a fool?
Dating sucks or does it? What many of us don't understand or learn until much later in life is that the we allow people to treat us the way we should be treated. This lesson has reared it's head a lot in my life especially when it comes to dating and relationships. I found myself asking countless times, am I dating a king or a fool? Now, many of you may be asking what's the difference between the two? How do I know if I'm dating one? Well, I'm here to help. Hopefully by reading this, you'll seek someone who is fit to sit with you on your throne. The Fool: Ah, the fool. full of life, energy, possibility and wide-eyed wonder. What's wrong with this picture you ask? Nothing if you enjoy spontaneity which you'll get plenty of at the start of things. Now, at the start of things I say enjoy it. Have fun with it. However, if you're looking for something long-term you might wanna move on from the fool. Signs you're dating a fool Talk that...