The Do's and Don't's of a Psychic Reading
Hello Everyone,
Begin in the industry for the past 11 years. I've continued to encounter things that not only piss me off but make me sad. Let's make one thing clear and that is, when you select a reading from a psychic remember you are calling them for a reason. We are here to empower your life and give you guidance that's all. We are not doctors, lawyers or therapists. Treat us accordingly and we will do the
same to you. Just in case you haven't gotten the jist of what I am saying here are some things that both the psychic and the client can do to ensure a great reading.
The DO'S (For The Client)
1.Be Prepared for the reading you are about to receive. Clear your mind from as much junk as you can. This for some can be hard but it is very worth it. You will be amazed at the results of your reading if you do this. To Put It Plainly:Relax
2.Have Your Question/Questions Ready:Whenever you select a reading from a psychic from whatever network you choose to call, make sure you have your question/questions ready. More importantly make sure that they make sense. Think long and hard about them before calling a psychic because stupid questions warrant stupid answers.
3. Be Specif: When you speak with an advisor remember you are building a relationship. So it's very important for us as psychics to be able be open with you. When you get a reading make sure to open your mouth and talk to us about why you're calling. You wouldn't go to a doctor and say 'I'm sick-fix me' Of course you wouldn't, you would tell the doctor what is wrong with you and they would go from there and hopefully you will no longer be sick. To Put It Plainly- Open Your Damn Mouth!
4. Understand Freewill: Another thing that can help you as a client is understanding free will. If you contact a psychic and they predict the outcome of a situation. They are giving you just that-a prediction. Life can change at the blink of an eye. In Other words:Things that a psychic predicts can happen but not always in the way we say it will.
5. Listen: This is the last and most important thing that you as a client can do. Listen not only to what the psychic is telling you but also what your own guts are telling you? Allow the psychic room to speak and listen to what they have to say. Even if it's something that you may not agree with.
Now, that I have covered what you as a client can do, Let's move onto what we psychics can do for a great reading.
The DO'S (For The Psychics)
1 Prepare Yourself: You are about to talk to people from every part of the world and every walk of life. So prepare yourself for what is about to take place. Light some candles, dim the lights or play some soft music. In other words: Clear your head and ground yourself.
2. Be Honest:This is really a given but a lot of people do not heed by this rule. Why would you lie to someone that your trying to build a relationship with? I'm not saying be blunt but let the client know that the things you see can change but it is up to them make those changes.
3. Be Friendly: I know right, another given but believe me, if you have a smile while speaking with your clients they will be more comfortable and you as a psychic will pick up more.
4. Listen: That's right as psychics we all know how important it is to have the client listen to us but it is just as important for us to listen to them. Remember, they've selected us for a reason. Plus, a lot of the people that call us are looking for answers to what they think/feel is a crisis. It is our right to be their shoulder to lean on.
5. Relate To The Client: I'll say it again, relate to the client. How are you going to build a relationship with your client if you cannot walk even if it is for a moment in their shoes? That's why they are calling you and not someone else. The client feels that you can relate to
what they're going through. If you relate to them, you will build stronger relationships. Trust me.
6.Refer Other Psychics To Your Customers: If you have a clients of yours that you cannot connect with refer them to someone that you think can. This is a business for many of us and it not only helps another businessperson out but it makes you look professional.
You see how easy this all sounds? That's all you and I have to do to have a great reading.
Now, I am going to move on to the DO NOT'S
The DO NOT'S (For The Client)
1. Do Not Call With Bad Or Nasty Attitude: If you as a client are having a bad day and you want to contact an advisor, call on a day when you're more calmed down. We as psychics do not deserve to get cussed out by you for something that we have no control over. Besides, we do not have control over you're lives you do.
2. Do Not Call Just To Test A Psychic:This really should be a given but for a lot of you it is not, so I'll just say it. Stop Calling Advisors to test them. How would you like it if we came to your job to test you? Not only, is it rude but it's just plain stupid.
3.Do Not: Say To A Psychic "You're The Psychic You Tell Me": Why? Well, it's insulting and secondly it goes back to what I was saying at the start of this blog, We don't know you! We're Psychics not magical eight balls. As a human begin you know a smart-ass comment when you make one and if you want to turn your reading into something juvenile, contact someone who is willing to put up with you. True psychics do not have time for bullshit!
4. Do Not: Get Upset If A Psychic Tells You The Truth: Yeah, I said it. Why would a person become upset by the truth? That's like wanting to kill the weather reporter because they said it was going to be sunny on Wednesday but it rained instead. Besides, you know the truth deep down you just as a client are hoping for something different. I understand that, but the only way to deal with the truth is to do just that, deal with it.
5.DO Not: Call A Psychic To Confirm What Another Psychic Has Told You: The reason I say this is because the psychics that you speak with do not know each other and even if they do I doubt they want to be compared like that. Also, every reading is different. If you want a reading like that, talk to a robot not a psychic! Allow the psychic to see what they see and if it makes sense great, if not leave simple as that.
6.Do Not: Ask A Psychic How Accurate They Are: Let this speak for itself as you are getting a reading from them. If and when you ask a psychic this. You are putting them on the spot and you know it. Doing this is rude and childish not only that it often times catches us off guard. Most people who are in this business know that accuracy is tricky.
7.Do Not: Become Dependent on Psychics: Like I said earlier, we are here to give you guidance. Once you put that phone down or you leave our presence, you are in control of your own fate and destiny. I am not saying do not call us, I'm just saying make up your own mind and fight your own battles. Nothing I mean, nothing is ever final in life. When you become dependent on psychics you are giving your own power away, think about that.
8. Do Not Stay On The Phone With A Psychic If You Do Not Feel A Connection: Why would you stay the phone with a person that you are not feeling connected with? That doesn't make any sense. If you are as a client on the phone or with someone you do not connect with, then politely leave or hang up the phone. For the those of you who do this just to leave bad feedback, I have a few words for you: Grow Up!
Okay, I think I've covered all I can about what you as a client should not do. Now I am going to cover what we as psychics should not do.
The DO NOT'S (For The Psychics)
1.DO NOT: Say Your '100% Accurate': The reason I say this is because. Not only are you putting a lot of pressure on yourself but you are also putting pressure on the other psychics who may or may not be as accurate as you. If you choose to say this be prepared for a lot of testing from everyone, even other psychics. You are a human begin that makes mistakes like everyone else and it's better to say that then to lie to your clients and yourself.
2. DO NOT: Tell Your Clients To Only Contact You: First of all, this is just you power-tripping. The one thing I have learned from this business is that egos and clicks run like cattle in this industry.
Just Stop it! Many of the people we speak with look at us as therapists, even though we are not. So do not get upset if a client talks with another psychic. It's like talking with your best friends, you need different opinions. Telling a client that they should only speak with you screams only one thing: Ego
3.DO NOT: Bash Other Psychics: First of all, I can understand it if you have been bashed and you are defending yourself. If you doing it just to be nasty, then you have a lot of growing up to do. In Other Words: You are an adult, act like one!
4.DO NOT: Tell Every Client You Speak With That The Person They Are With/Wanting To Be With Is Their Soul mate: This really should be a given but it's not. I've talked with countless men and women that have been told this and when they are told different they flip! Stop conning these people and be honest with them. Believe me, you'll be glad you did and also even though they may not say it, they will be too.
5.DO NOT: Pressure Your Clients Into Spell Work or Any Types of Cleansings: If they want that type of work done they will ask for it. Also you are controlling a person's free will when you do this and that is not right nor is it your job.
6.DO NOT: Allow Your Ego To Get In The Way Of Your Work:A lot of us workers have our degrees and credits on our pages and there's nothing wrong with that. Please, for the life of yourself do not become puffed up by what you have gotten throughout your career. Because nine times out of ten the person you are speaking with could really give a damn about your degrees or credit. You are giving them a reading not a resume.
Well, I hope this helps all you and I look forward to talking with all of you.
Love, Leo Brown
Begin in the industry for the past 11 years. I've continued to encounter things that not only piss me off but make me sad. Let's make one thing clear and that is, when you select a reading from a psychic remember you are calling them for a reason. We are here to empower your life and give you guidance that's all. We are not doctors, lawyers or therapists. Treat us accordingly and we will do the
same to you. Just in case you haven't gotten the jist of what I am saying here are some things that both the psychic and the client can do to ensure a great reading.
The DO'S (For The Client)
1.Be Prepared for the reading you are about to receive. Clear your mind from as much junk as you can. This for some can be hard but it is very worth it. You will be amazed at the results of your reading if you do this. To Put It Plainly:Relax
2.Have Your Question/Questions Ready:Whenever you select a reading from a psychic from whatever network you choose to call, make sure you have your question/questions ready. More importantly make sure that they make sense. Think long and hard about them before calling a psychic because stupid questions warrant stupid answers.
3. Be Specif: When you speak with an advisor remember you are building a relationship. So it's very important for us as psychics to be able be open with you. When you get a reading make sure to open your mouth and talk to us about why you're calling. You wouldn't go to a doctor and say 'I'm sick-fix me' Of course you wouldn't, you would tell the doctor what is wrong with you and they would go from there and hopefully you will no longer be sick. To Put It Plainly- Open Your Damn Mouth!
4. Understand Freewill: Another thing that can help you as a client is understanding free will. If you contact a psychic and they predict the outcome of a situation. They are giving you just that-a prediction. Life can change at the blink of an eye. In Other words:Things that a psychic predicts can happen but not always in the way we say it will.
5. Listen: This is the last and most important thing that you as a client can do. Listen not only to what the psychic is telling you but also what your own guts are telling you? Allow the psychic room to speak and listen to what they have to say. Even if it's something that you may not agree with.
Now, that I have covered what you as a client can do, Let's move onto what we psychics can do for a great reading.
The DO'S (For The Psychics)
1 Prepare Yourself: You are about to talk to people from every part of the world and every walk of life. So prepare yourself for what is about to take place. Light some candles, dim the lights or play some soft music. In other words: Clear your head and ground yourself.
2. Be Honest:This is really a given but a lot of people do not heed by this rule. Why would you lie to someone that your trying to build a relationship with? I'm not saying be blunt but let the client know that the things you see can change but it is up to them make those changes.
3. Be Friendly: I know right, another given but believe me, if you have a smile while speaking with your clients they will be more comfortable and you as a psychic will pick up more.
4. Listen: That's right as psychics we all know how important it is to have the client listen to us but it is just as important for us to listen to them. Remember, they've selected us for a reason. Plus, a lot of the people that call us are looking for answers to what they think/feel is a crisis. It is our right to be their shoulder to lean on.
5. Relate To The Client: I'll say it again, relate to the client. How are you going to build a relationship with your client if you cannot walk even if it is for a moment in their shoes? That's why they are calling you and not someone else. The client feels that you can relate to
what they're going through. If you relate to them, you will build stronger relationships. Trust me.
6.Refer Other Psychics To Your Customers: If you have a clients of yours that you cannot connect with refer them to someone that you think can. This is a business for many of us and it not only helps another businessperson out but it makes you look professional.
You see how easy this all sounds? That's all you and I have to do to have a great reading.
Now, I am going to move on to the DO NOT'S
The DO NOT'S (For The Client)
1. Do Not Call With Bad Or Nasty Attitude: If you as a client are having a bad day and you want to contact an advisor, call on a day when you're more calmed down. We as psychics do not deserve to get cussed out by you for something that we have no control over. Besides, we do not have control over you're lives you do.
2. Do Not Call Just To Test A Psychic:This really should be a given but for a lot of you it is not, so I'll just say it. Stop Calling Advisors to test them. How would you like it if we came to your job to test you? Not only, is it rude but it's just plain stupid.
3.Do Not: Say To A Psychic "You're The Psychic You Tell Me": Why? Well, it's insulting and secondly it goes back to what I was saying at the start of this blog, We don't know you! We're Psychics not magical eight balls. As a human begin you know a smart-ass comment when you make one and if you want to turn your reading into something juvenile, contact someone who is willing to put up with you. True psychics do not have time for bullshit!
4. Do Not: Get Upset If A Psychic Tells You The Truth: Yeah, I said it. Why would a person become upset by the truth? That's like wanting to kill the weather reporter because they said it was going to be sunny on Wednesday but it rained instead. Besides, you know the truth deep down you just as a client are hoping for something different. I understand that, but the only way to deal with the truth is to do just that, deal with it.
5.DO Not: Call A Psychic To Confirm What Another Psychic Has Told You: The reason I say this is because the psychics that you speak with do not know each other and even if they do I doubt they want to be compared like that. Also, every reading is different. If you want a reading like that, talk to a robot not a psychic! Allow the psychic to see what they see and if it makes sense great, if not leave simple as that.
6.Do Not: Ask A Psychic How Accurate They Are: Let this speak for itself as you are getting a reading from them. If and when you ask a psychic this. You are putting them on the spot and you know it. Doing this is rude and childish not only that it often times catches us off guard. Most people who are in this business know that accuracy is tricky.
7.Do Not: Become Dependent on Psychics: Like I said earlier, we are here to give you guidance. Once you put that phone down or you leave our presence, you are in control of your own fate and destiny. I am not saying do not call us, I'm just saying make up your own mind and fight your own battles. Nothing I mean, nothing is ever final in life. When you become dependent on psychics you are giving your own power away, think about that.
8. Do Not Stay On The Phone With A Psychic If You Do Not Feel A Connection: Why would you stay the phone with a person that you are not feeling connected with? That doesn't make any sense. If you are as a client on the phone or with someone you do not connect with, then politely leave or hang up the phone. For the those of you who do this just to leave bad feedback, I have a few words for you: Grow Up!
Okay, I think I've covered all I can about what you as a client should not do. Now I am going to cover what we as psychics should not do.
The DO NOT'S (For The Psychics)
1.DO NOT: Say Your '100% Accurate': The reason I say this is because. Not only are you putting a lot of pressure on yourself but you are also putting pressure on the other psychics who may or may not be as accurate as you. If you choose to say this be prepared for a lot of testing from everyone, even other psychics. You are a human begin that makes mistakes like everyone else and it's better to say that then to lie to your clients and yourself.
2. DO NOT: Tell Your Clients To Only Contact You: First of all, this is just you power-tripping. The one thing I have learned from this business is that egos and clicks run like cattle in this industry.
Just Stop it! Many of the people we speak with look at us as therapists, even though we are not. So do not get upset if a client talks with another psychic. It's like talking with your best friends, you need different opinions. Telling a client that they should only speak with you screams only one thing: Ego
3.DO NOT: Bash Other Psychics: First of all, I can understand it if you have been bashed and you are defending yourself. If you doing it just to be nasty, then you have a lot of growing up to do. In Other Words: You are an adult, act like one!
4.DO NOT: Tell Every Client You Speak With That The Person They Are With/Wanting To Be With Is Their Soul mate: This really should be a given but it's not. I've talked with countless men and women that have been told this and when they are told different they flip! Stop conning these people and be honest with them. Believe me, you'll be glad you did and also even though they may not say it, they will be too.
5.DO NOT: Pressure Your Clients Into Spell Work or Any Types of Cleansings: If they want that type of work done they will ask for it. Also you are controlling a person's free will when you do this and that is not right nor is it your job.
6.DO NOT: Allow Your Ego To Get In The Way Of Your Work:A lot of us workers have our degrees and credits on our pages and there's nothing wrong with that. Please, for the life of yourself do not become puffed up by what you have gotten throughout your career. Because nine times out of ten the person you are speaking with could really give a damn about your degrees or credit. You are giving them a reading not a resume.
Well, I hope this helps all you and I look forward to talking with all of you.
Love, Leo Brown
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