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Looking in the mirror: codependent relationships

Good Morning Cubbers Happy Sunday! Here's something that this past weekend has taught me. Codependency on any level is not, I repeat not healthy. It is not your job to "fix" your partner. The only person you can "fix" or as I like to say, repair is yourself. If you're in a relationship (this even includes friendships) where you're doing ALL the work and you're thinking "I can fix them or they'll change" I've got news for you: You're fooling yourself. Instead of focusing on your partners, look in the mirror. That's right, look in the mirror, do the work to and start to repair yourself. Figure out why you attract these codependent relationships. Where does the root of it stem from? Is it loneliness? Low self esteem? Whatever it is, remember this: You are a queen/king and you deserve to rule your kingdom. Now get to work and sit on your throne and rule with all of YOUR power! Love, Leo Brown :) www.psychicleo.com

Finding Freedom Within Yourself

I've lived a very sheltered life. As I look back from time to time. I can remember growing up and begin told not to associate with certain people, places or things because it was "wrong". Every time I wanted to do or try something new, I was told "No!" So in turn as I became older and started to take risks, I doubted myself.  In a sense, I had been bound and gagged if you will, by my environment, my upbringing and most of all myself. It has taken me years and many mistakes to find out what true freedom is. When we think of the word freedom we think of the idea of just begin able to do and say what we please, no one telling us what we can and cannot do and of course when we think of freedom we think of America. This great, great country, with it's natural beauty around us. What about inner freedom? Emotional Freedom? Begin able to look in the mirror and actually not just like but love who and what you see in the looking glass? I find that in this fast-pac...

How Did I Get Here?

How Did I Get Here? This is a question that I believe everyone has asked at some point in their lives. Even myself. The reason I ask the question now is because I sometimes wonder about what I do. Don't get me wrong, I love my job the good and bad of it but sometimes, I wonder to myself what pushed me into this arena. Actually, it was quite by accident. I remember it very vividly, I was job searching begin that I had been let go from my three year old job as a phone actor.  More on that in a completely different post. I also remember begin in a panicky mess. The whole time I'm looking at other phone acting jobs, I'm thinking, How am I going to pay the bills? What am I going to do? the whole bit. When my best friend piped up and said "Why don't get into the psychic business?" I thought that he was joking. I told him in a very serious voice that "I could never do that and would never do that" Besides I said to him, isn't that unethical or...