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Getting REAL about relationships.

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For most of my life, I've been in love with love. However, I've come to realize that I'm not alone in this fact. Many of us both men and women are or have been at one point and time. In love in with the mistress called L.O.V.E.  There comes a time when you stop begin in love with love and start getting real. Not just about love but why we're in love with the idea and fantasy of begin loved but not doing the work of loving someone from an unconditional, genuine place. Now, I'm not saying there's anything with begin in love with love because love is one of our purest emotions but if you always choose to have rose colored glasses on. It can and will cause a problem. Here's a few things that I've seen that contribute to our ongoing infatuation with love, 1. Society: Society as a whole plays a HUGE role in how we view relationships. Think about it for a moment. When you look back on say, your childhood. What kind of love did your parents have with e...

That one time...I “heard” but didn't “listen” over and over and over again.

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That one time...revelations of a lifetime. by Leo Brown. Gay men who are known as trade. I had just gotten back from one of my favorite places in the world. Las Vegas. I don't know what it is about sin city but it resonates with me and I it. I absolutely love it! Everything down to the weather and homeless guys on the street. Even they sparkle to me despite begin covered in dirt. I had gone there to celebrate my turning 34 a week early. I wanted to bring in my 34th year with a bang and I got exactly what I asked for. Before making this trip. I had been talking with a guy named Delroy. (Not his real name.) I met him on a telephone chat site and when we met. It was at least for me a very magickal experience. I thought “Finally, I've found someone who understood me.” We had been talking for over 14 months and it was nice to be desired and thought of.  As he and I would talk everyday for sometimes hours about everything from marriage, living together and even the poss...

How to connect to self, source and spirit in five easy steps.

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Meditation. When we think of this word, for many of us we think of stillness, the lotus position, charkas or the word om. Now, some of this is true. For some when we meditate we do allow stillness and calm to take over our bodies and for some our chakras spin and become aligned. However, just like there's more than one way to skin a cat. There's more than one way to connect to your higher self, receive messages from spirit and ground yourself. Meditation doesn't have to be a job and it doesn't have to take an hour. Here are five very simple, practical ways that you can connect to source, self and spirit without even knowing it. 1. Walking: I know. Sounds easy right? Have you ever noticed that when you're walking your focus becomes sharper? The mental clutter that was once in your head starts to go away. That's because walking is a form of meditation. It's simple, easy, quick and gets you in shape at the same time. 2. Cooking/Eating: That...

That one time... I tried to turn nothing into something over and over and over.

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It happen again. I misread the signs; no, I saw what I wanted to see and heard what I wanted to hear. Contrary to popular opinion, just because you have the sight doesn't mean that you're dating life or the person you're dating shines bright like a diamond. Hell, in most cases you can't see shit. I am no exception to this rule. We've all done it. Met someone, felt a “deep connection” say you're going to take things slow but in your head you're already picking out china and making the seating arrangements for the wedding of all weddings that is going to take place in two years max.  In my dating/love life. I always attracted men who looked the part (or I convinced myself they were fine but that's for another post.) said the right things but once I got past all that. Turns out they weren't shit, didn't have shit and didn't want shit. In other words emotionally or physically unavailable. Sure, they wanted to fuck but that was it; and...

Star Readings: Bill Cosby.

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Bill Cosby is in serious trouble;  and isn't going away anytime soon. If you've been living under a rock, as of now, there have been 17 different women that have come forward accusing The cos' of sexual assault. What do I pick up for Mr. Cosby?  There will be more women coming for him in defense and accusing him of sexual misconduct.(at least 25) I pick up that at least 6 of the statements made by some of these women may turn out to be true. Will he go to jail? No, I don't think so. Even though I do pick up that his career is going to go through a very rocky period. More than it is now. There's a lot of money that he either is going to have payback to people or he is going lose money. There may be a possible bankruptcy.  I pick up checks/contracts around him as well. Meaning that a lot of this has the smell of tainted money and payoffs written all over it. I truly hope that not only does he grow from this but that we learn that money and power an...