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You Picked Them.

Hello Readers, Today I am going to talk about something that I've been debating in my head. At first, I wasn't  sure if I should discuss this because I may get some backlash but I've realized that backlash can be a good thing. So, here goes. I want to talk about the about the mates that we tend to choose. I've noticed that when we set our sights on someone, we have either do two things, we have a plan already in place in our minds or we just hope for the best. What I've also noticed is that when things are great, we are on cloud nine. Now, when things get bad, the first thing we echo is 'Why are they like this?' Well, let's take a moment to think about that shall we? Often times, when we've met or are in the process of getting to know someone, we tend to overlook the big things. Why? Because we are so 'into' them that we don't see the flaws and imperfections that the person may have.  I'll give you an example. It was the winte